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Because, to be honest, I have been looking for that every since I first came here. And Please dont throw you hands up in the air. I honestly need an answer of how I can communicate through something like when other people are upset with eachother. So far everything I look at has more cons then pros. And I don't want to be trapped like this anymore. Open Eyes
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No, Open Eyes, I won't throw my hands up in the air. And to the best of my ability you'll get an answer. And no I won't get mad at you. Let's see if we can get you untrapped.
You can communicate through something like this by (1) never falling to the level of the two or more people who are yelling at each other; (2) always maintaining a reasonable tone of language; (3) repetitively pointing out to the participants that the way they're conducting themselves is not appropriate; (4) not being discouraged at initially being ignored; (5) continuing to try to figure out new and different ways of saying "this is silly," "you're wasting your time" and "what's this REALLY about?" and (6) by just never giving up. Take care.
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