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Sep 28, 2011, 10:32 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I don't think he's "incapable" of being committed --- he's either afraid of commitment, or else he doesn't want to put in the work involved in keeping a relationship going.
I'd ask him where he thinks this relationship is going -- like you said, does he see it ending or on-going? Alot will depend on how he answers that. I wouldn't try to "talk him into" making any commitment cause it sounds like he's already got his mind made up. 
I think I'd lean toward ending it amicably -- I'm sure YOU would prefer a solid, commited relationship. Everyone wants that -- but if he's so against it, why waste any more of your time? I'm SURE you'll find someone who is more suited for you, and won't treat your relationship lightly. He wants all the "'perks' but doesn't want to do any work.
I wish you the very best -- take care & God bless. Hugs, Lee
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