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Sep 29, 2011, 07:31 AM
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Member Since: Sep 2011
Location: NY
Posts: 8
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Hi I have a problem. I moved from Trinidad to the U.S about 11yrs ago and left everything behind which was hard. As a kid u dont really think how it would affect u but there was this guy who i liked very much but i never knew if he liked me back. I came to the U.S and since it hurt so much to leave i suppressed all my feelings and put them in a box so to speak. After yrs of being rejected used and not being loved back by the person u love i remembered him the one who got away. i decided to use fb to find him and i did. I finally had the courage to ask him what i didnt yrs ago and it turned out that he did like me as much as i liked him but there was a downside he had gotten married I was crushed and i still havent been able to let go and to top it off he has a baby. I reconnected with an old friend from the place where i grew up and we started talking only problem is i think i love the other guy more than him i'm confused but i know the other guy doesnt or cant love me the way i want him to. I need advice should i end it with the guy i reconnected with and give him a chance to find someone or let someone find him and love him for the way he supposed to be loved or should i hold on to him so i would be alone. Either way i think its a lose lose situation because if i let the love of my life go and stay with the guy im not sure i love i'll be miserable and if i choose to let the guy i care about go Im alone but maybe thats what i need to be alone to work on being a better me please help me!!!!!!!!!!
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