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Old Sep 29, 2011, 08:37 AM
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Note: there's a difference between the fear of the unknown that comes from venturing into new territory, and the instinctual gut feeling that something isn't right - if you ask yourself which one you are feeling I'm quite sure you'll be able to tell.
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The challenge is to move forward despite the fear.
fear can be a great motivator for me. it has prompted me to stretch my horizons. if i hadn't tried i would have never triumphed. if i gave in to fear it would paralyze me the longer i didn't act. when acting on fear/new territory, pushing thru it, i also find it can reinforce my self confidence. asking myself what is the worst thing can happen to me causes me to put the fear in proper perspective. no "chicken little" for me.
there's a saying that somewhat applies-
"do or not do. there is no try."
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