who knows what is best? everyone is different. if you found a special person willing to be there for you....hey, why not? you will be overly sensitive to things and may play games (defensiveness)....but both can be overcome with honesty. may be tough unless you completely trust the person. no one really understands the heart. you should be happy and if you can find someone...hey, why not?

<font color=purple> But a stranger in a strange land, he is no one:
men know him not and to know not is to care not for.
Bram Stoker, Dracula, 1897 </font color=purple>