Hello Marmit. Your story kind of reminds me of myself where I was at your age. I'm 27 now. At your age, I had kissed girls but never had a girlfriend. I was always 'the nice guy' who didn't know how to make a move on a girl I liked. If I had a penny for every time I heard "you're too nice" I'd have a lotttt of pennies! I am also a Christian and don't objectify women. Going forward 7 years I've had a girlfriend of 1 year and I've been going out with my current gf for 3 months. I went from thinking "there's something wrong with me because I don't have a gf" to understanding that I'm a very good and considerate boyfriend when given the chance.

I'd be patient. Society has changed. Girls at 20 sometimes don't know what they want and they tend to go for the bad boy. The nice guys flourish in their mid 20's once the girls are tired of dealing with the bad boy. Don't change though. Stick with your beliefs. I would, however, read some books about this stuff. If a girl puts her head on your chest she is probably trying to tell you something! I wouldn't necessarily 'be more aggressive' but I'd have a little more confidence and just go for it...PM me if you'd like and good luck