i've been thinking about the same thing. there is one man who hurt me and my cousin (he was my cousins step-dad and unfortunately he had access to her her whole life). I looked up his address and I want to send a threatening letter to him. Thats not really confrontation. I just want to threaten him to tell him that I know what he did..and have people watching to make sure he isn't around chidlren where he lives and if I think he is up to soemthing bad again, im going and telling it all to police.