Wow! no you wouldn't have time to call back! then people "change their mind". Plus that is a very good point about not leaving a message - if someone is calling a T, they are likely in some small amount of trouble, and I remember some T's would NEVER leave me a message, just as a regular practice - they didn't even TRY to remember who was single or where it was okay to leave a message at work or not, I guess, because even that could be problematic. Very interesting viewpoint, amandalouise, thanks for contributing it, I don't think we would have thought of this aspect otherwise; we were just taking it personal. And especially with the HIPAA privacy laws in the US now, that might even factor in.