ha ha ha... "walk it off".... "you'll get over it"

No i don't have any respect for that doctor who told me those things.

The most recent and ongoing thing I keep being told is from my mom about my dad "you need to forgive him" when he was my abuser. i wish my mom would be angry at the man who hurt me.

I think the most thing we all have heard is "Just move on" or "get over it" as if its not that big a deal and that it's our decision to be miserable or something.