Sorry for the slightly confusing answer. I think I wrote that sort of tired and it made more sense in my head than it does now. What I ment was, those are sort of your options. In so much as, you can ignore it, obsess on it, or talk on it. However, given the choice, I would talk about it, break down uncomfortablity, and fear. After all, prehaps if your feeling more comfortable in yourself, you wont feel so worked up. Hopefully that makes more sense now. D=

P.S: Sorry if I'm not being much use here.