idk how to quote posts yet but caretaker: i have commented on it before, i didnt mean it to be offensive at all, i wasnt even thinking when i said it. i was leaving my place and she was going onto hers and she had the baby. i exclaimed "oh! youre the one with the baby!" to which she replied, "yeah i am. can you hear it?" and i said "oh barely i didnt even know what it was at first."

which is partially what makes me stutter with this. it was definitely a kick-myself moment.

also, we NEVER see each other. we have only crossed paths once since my blunder, when we both happened to be outside enjoying the weather.

and geez, that is exactly what i had in mind i would never ask a mother to trust her babies to a near stranger lol. thanks for the input