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Originally Posted by Chloe2
Do you ever feel like your t totally gets you, and then says something so out in left field that you realize he doesn't? my t is good, I have even met with a few others over the last few months just to make sure I had the right T, because we have had some problems. What I discovered is, he is the best for me out of the 3 I met with. I just find that every so often he says something so not me that I feel a little hurt. I know they can't be perfect, but shouldn't a t know you/your values after seeing a client somewhat regularly for the past 7 or so months?  |
No not really, we're always changing and growing, and sometimes getting it "wrong" is part of getting it "right". A lot of people in therapy are little fragile where "mistakes" on who we are or what we stand for are made, perhaps because we've had so much of it in the past so cannot tolerate anything less then "spot on"?