Hi ~ I don't think I would talk to HER -- but I'd have a "sit down" talk with my BF and reassure him that I was there for him, and whatever he chooses to do is okay with you -- but I'd also tell him that it isn't really ETHICAL for the therapist to try to "control" what he does. Remind him that he has a mind of his own, and any decisions should be HIS -- not hers.
He's a very impressionable man. I'm not sure this therapist is the right one for him. But I guess all you can do is support him. Best of luck! Hugs, Lee
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