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Old Oct 01, 2011, 09:21 AM
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When he has an outburst like that, don't say ANYTHING -- just walk away. By answering him, you're just feeding his anxiety -- and he gets madder. Walk away until he's more "logical" and tell him how he makes you feel and that you're not going to put up with it anymore. Mention that you need a HUSBAND, not a father!!!

Has he ever given YOU the chance to tell him what is bothering YOU? You might ask him for that "privilege." It seems that this is a one-way relationship -- and he's getting all the benefits.

Take your power back. You're just as good a person as he is. You have the same rights. Don't let him run over you. God bless & good luck. Hugs, Lee