It's weird, but when I started this thread, I was thinking of relationships that I didn't want to get into at first, and then when I did, I didn't want them to end. But you all have pointed out that this tendency of mine can apply to anything--work, home, school, social life--and it probably is a form of perfectionism.
Madisgram, I do have a T, but I haven't brought this up with him. I will try to remember to next session.
Thank you all.
HS
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