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Originally Posted by Chloe2
Thanks everyone.
I should have been more specific. The specific issue that I came to my T about, he keeps taking different angles on it. I have told him bluntly where I stand with it, what my problem is, and truthfully he didn't really have to do any work to find it out. But lately he keeps talking about it as though I have never explained any of it to him! Asking questions that he already would know if he listened to me. And I have, many times explained it to him. So I feel like he should know me around this issue? Do you still disagree? I just feel that after a certain time that these sorts of things, forgetting major details, should not be happening.
It would be like going to your T for a phobia of heights and having him ask you with all seriousness, "would you ever bungy jumped?" "have you ever skydived?" or "you should go check out that, insert something height phobia related"
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maybe it's not that he doesnt know you, but maybe he is trying to challenge your "rigidity" on that particular topic?
in that moment when you feel he's forgotten or doesnt get your stance, what do you say? i think it would be worth it to say something like, "you know we've been over this a bunch of times and i feel like i've made my stance on this pretty clear. is there a reason that you keep questioning me on this? are you trying to change my mind? have you forgotten why i feel the way i do?"
i think the only way you will understand what the deal is, is to ask.