1) She forgets important things about my history over and over again and asks me to fill her in. I just explained how I ended up in the hospital to her last week, for the gazillionth time, because she couldn't remember. She seemed to have no knowledge or understanding of the drug side effect, as if she'd never heard of it.

I think you should move on, she doesn't sound helpful to you. Im sorry you are dealing with that, its not easy to find someone.

What you wrote above, thats my situation, but thats the only problem Im having, so I haven't figured out whether I should be making a big deal about it. But its very hurtful. On top of everything else you wrote, I wouldn't stick around.

Good luck with whatever you decide.