Hi LydiaB,

I very rarely say to someone that you should leave and find another therapist but I will say that you should definately consider it with this woman.

How on earth are you supposed to feel you can trust her when she has shown how she judges people? She has no right to call anyone a 'loser', it is so wrong and immoral. What she has said go against theraputic ethics completely. I am not surprised you are angry at her for the things she has said about your parents. It is fine for a client to say what they want in their session but a therapist is supposed to be the objective person who is caring and supportive.

I am sorry you have had to listen to these things from her. I think you need to confront her, as you have said and make a decison on whether she is right for you or not, irrespective of others recommending her.

all the best