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Originally Posted by Readytostop
In session tonight, I talked about something that was very painful to me.. past trauma... and I got no reaction from him.... no leading questions to help me explore how I felt when that was going on...nothing to help me figure out the effects on today... nothing...
I don't know how I'm supposed to work through this alone...if I could I would have done it a long time ago...
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I think you should tell him
exactly this.
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Originally Posted by Readytostop
Maybe I've gotten as far as I can in therapy... Has anyone else "hit the wall" with Therapy?
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I have had times when we didn't make progress for a while, so that might be considered a "wall", but we kept the sessions up and maintained the relationship and eventually more progress came. Readytostop, what you describe sounds very "fixable" to me, as it is more of a problem on his part than yours, and hopefully he can fix it fairly quickly once you tell him what the problem is. I bet he does not even realize he is being so avoidant with you.
Good luck, keep going, tell your T!
