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Originally Posted by granite1
thanks karebear 
i dont think my t is the kind of t that wants to be dealing with filling needs i think she is more into me filling myown needs but that just may be the way i see her at this point.
believe me i would always rather go without than to open up and ask for something.i have been this way all my life and am good at just dealing with what may be given.i was tought that well.just accept what you have been given and be greatfull for that or next time nothing  i couldnt handle this responce from her at all .not that she would have this responce but i think i would see any answer she had as doing or saying this so no way wont ever ask for anything. |
Sounds like you and I were raised in a similar way. That is, indeed, what makes this so difficult and scarey to do. I understand your fear and your hesitance in not asking granite.When you're ready- you'll do it, until then, just try to hang in there my friend. Good things come to those who wait.(but they have to ask sometimes too!
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