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Old Oct 15, 2002, 07:24 PM
jsc1972 jsc1972 is offline
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bptoo...
sounds like she never attended reunions before because she never wanted anyone to know how miserable she really was. maybe mental illness is also a factor? alcoholism is an illness. people will do anything to escape their pain. even when not drinking, one can be a dry drunk who still remains sick.

trust is the issue here. if you want to be honest with her and yourself, tell her you don't trust her. but don't end it there, try to say something nice....leave the door open for her.

i personally think LOVE is more important than PRINCIPLES. be flexible and allow people & relationships to grow.

<font color=purple> But a stranger in a strange land, he is no one:
men know him not and to know not is to care not for.

Bram Stoker, Dracula, 1897 </font color=purple>