Butterflying: Yes, I need to adhere to my T's boundaries now that I know for sure she doesn't want me to look up stuff about her family. That is going to be VERY hard for me. I made the list of what she's told me because I thought that SHE thought she only told me minimal information. I wanted her to know that was incorrect. I know she's not stupid, but I thought maybe she FORGOT what she told me. I was angry and lashed out at her in my email. I shouldn't have sent it.