Oct 02, 2011 at 10:34 AM
i agree with many who have given advice. having been emotionally and physically abused in the past this is what i've learned-
abusers' behavior only escalate
reasoning with an abuser is fruitless
for abusers it's about controlling others
abusers rarely "change their colors". they do not change. statistical fact.
you are in danger having anything at all with him.
seek help from ppl, don't protect him by remaining silent
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