tree, at first my email situation was similar to you and your T's. Then my T decided she would answer ALL of my emails. That worked for a long time until the one time I got upset and emailed her too much. Her answering only once per week was a compromise, and was generally okay except sometimes. It's the "sometimes" that threw me off so I decided she shouldn't email me at all. I wish I could have been satisfied with her emails but it's part of my problem that I'm not.