stumpy, the problem is that the boundaries were NOT established by my T. She let me email and answered all of them. Then she changed the boundary because she said she had to reevaluate the situation. Then recently I reevaluated it and told her it wasn't good for her to email me at all. So, in my case, my T and I are setting the boundaries together. I don't know if that's good or bad, but that's the way it is.