just some girl: No, my T doesn't bring up what I write in my emails and that's another disappointment to me. I'm not sure if either reason is correct. Or possibly both. Often I feel compelled to tell her my reactions to the session that I have later that night. I don't get feedback from her; I used to but she stopped doing that, so I became frustrated with her emails because she would tell me to enjoy the weather, have a good week-end, and she'd see me next week. She wrote that way on purpose. I suppose I'm angry about that limit she set.
I usually post about my session here as well as emailing my T. A few months ago my T suggesting NOT posting about my sessions. It's so hard for me because I do want feedback from someone and I like writing it all out. I'll have to figure out what to do.
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I understand what you're saying about 'getting those feelings out there' -- does this necessarily have to be to T? Does she bring up what you have told her in email in session, and is it of benefit? Is the issue here that you're trying to keep the connection with T alive outside of sessions, or is it the process of writing your feelings down and getting feedback that you desire?
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