Calista: thank you. Everyone's situation is different, isn't it?

zbmom: Right now that's how it is with my T. I don't think I'll stop emailing her if it's something I want her to know, but I won't attack her. Or is that being dishonest? I don't know; I'm getting confused.

tigergirl: I'm learning that sometimes it would be better to just go to sleep!! Thanks for understanding me.