I'm with Scorpiosis in her take on emails. Although, at times, I've been jealous of those who can email their T's, I also know that for me it would be a slippery slope that would be hard to maintain and that I'd probably end up in a similar situation as Rainbow. The boundaries are good and I never have to wonder if I've gone too far in emailing because I'm not doing it at all. And I think that having T 'available' at all times would make her too enmeshed in my day to day life. I also think Dr. Muffin has made an excellent point.