I email and T has even bought a new book out called "distance pyschotherapy" I laughed when I saw it said "is that incase you get it wrong?" Lol.

But we do get it wrong sometimes, but that's part of the whole thing, its the working through and understanding why I felt her response was wrong or not as I wanted that is part and parcel of my therapy. Some people may feel they cannot conduct therapy through email, and that's ok, but they shouldn't put it on the client, they should own they don't feel secure enough in email. I've really acted out through email and it was handled just as it would be during f2f session. Sometimes I just wanted a top up between sessions and wrote any old rubbish just to get T's "attention" and that's ok too.