i didnt respond do to rainbows request to stop the thread but rain i hope you are ok with this.
my T stopped email do to the fact that i didn.t talk at all in T.i would send her one and not talk at all about it so she said no more.i was using the email to replace speaking and it wasnt helpfull .i was completely devistated.i think you remember.
i did then put some thought into why i liked to e-mail.it so much easier than talking face to face .and i knew if she was reading the e-mail for that moment she was thinking about me and wasnt forgeting that i exsisted and as i was writing it to her to me she still exsisted.it was so hard at first i felt miserable like i had done something horribly wrong but not e-mailing got easier over time