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Originally Posted by vanessaG
I dnt know i was just curious about his life. What hes like outside the office. Putting him on my block list is probably a good idea. If i tried to "friend" him even tho were not friends and he denied it i would feel bad. Better not go there. Im not even gonna tell him i found him.... He'll probably think ima stalker!
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Better not to go there, it strikes me, is a great conclusion and shows that you are dealing with this....and stepping back...whew....take it from me, these kinds of intrusive things have a way of growing, becoming lightening rods, and can even spoil the therapy. It's very human to become curious, but that doesn't mean you have to act on every impulse. Buddhists have a thing they call "refraining," and you might want to google it. The whole concept helped me a LOT! Blessings, MCL