tree i remember you saying you use to go to T three times a week.i minght be wrong but if not maybe you can use some of the same methods you used to allow you to go then.i like some of your other sugestions also.could your husband help with the kids games some even if it means meeting you at the game so you can leave early to go to session or something like that or maybe a sitter.have another mom whos child is in the same teem bring your son.i did the sports thing from my son being 5 untill 18 it is a chalenge i know that