I agree with Farmergirl. I think your husband needs to be a team player this week and do some of the child-rearing. Why doesn't he help with the after school activities? It seems like you are doing all the parenting with homeschool and other things. I am really taken back by this. Please if you feel comfortable elaborate. I know this is leading the post in a different direction and I understand if you do not want to do that. I am just curious.