The other thing, after reading the other replies on here - is that while they may be correct that she was doing empathy at you (and from what I have read, empathy is supposed to be a good thing and I hope it is what she was doing- others can tell you why empathy is supposed to help- I cannot), for what it is worth, if it had happened to me, I would not have identified it as empathy at all. I would have been enraged (I am not advocating for my probably response, just noting I probably would have not responded well to it).