Maybe this is really how YOU feel about HIM? Are you hoping to find something better and just keeping company with him until someone better comes along? I am from the previous generation, and this was NOT how we envisioned things for you guys! We wanted you to feel free to live with someone you LOVED, not be tied down to someone you weren't sure about. That seems about as bad as being unhappily married. This was not why we burned our bras. Either grab him and know and be happy you have him, or let him go. We believed the piece of paper was irrelevant. It doesn't change what the truth is.