thanks idk we chatted again cuz i'm insecure - i asked if i'd done anything wrong and he was confused with why i asked. I shared with him my thought patterns last friday about when i get upset which ranges from worry to destroying things and thoughts of leaving. I don't physically do it but i think it, i'd never shared these thoughts till last week and i must admit i am insecure about it- about sharing and yes thoughts of like he doesn't like me now.
Sigh long story short he said this we had never before talked about keys and me, unlike my wallet and me. If he knew he'd be more alert with asking.
I'm an odd ball though cuz yes space and things and boundaries but yet i don't care about him getting in my bag or using my phone and so on. I know it could be difficult to determine what i'll be possessive over. Sigh. :-P i'm glad we talked even if it was like 5 times about keys and stuff lol thank you guys for understanding. I don't feel as bad and confused either as i did when i posted the question.