Thank goodness you are in therapy. Actually...IMO being interested in Porn is a very liberal thing. You might mention that and watch him go ballistic!! LOL. Seriously tho....he sounds like a Type A personality. If he continues to rant and rave he just might wind up in the hospital. I mean at 62 he should be calming down and adopting more mellow ways. You have a tough decision to make. Which ever one you pick..it still won't be a bowl o' cherries.
I had an Uncle just like that. He raged about everything! No one could do anything right-except him. He used to scare me when I would visit. His kids were and still are robots. Still afraid to think for themselves. My uncle died in his early sixties. There is no doubt in my mind if he had squelched his anger somehow he would have been around for his grandchildren!!

GL!