Elli-Beth: You're very welcome. I am glad that my threads help others as well as myself.

BR: I'm happy that email works for you. You and your T have worked out a good balance that's helpful, which is what it should be. Thanks for sharing. As far as my wanting more, that's true, even though I know the way my t will answer. In spite of knowing she'll only write something positive and brief (which is nice) I can't handle it so it's better that she doesn't answer at all. That is working out for me, and I'm proud because it was MY decision, not my Ts!

ECHOES: Yeah, that's how it goes with my T too, and I'd rather not have it at all!! Thanks.

Flooded: To be serious, I think more people with BPD have problems with email than not. Also, we are each different, even with BPD. How about if I blame it all on the weather?