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Originally Posted by hankster
...it doesn't feel good! how many times do I have to tell you that? WELL after 4 years of that, it IS starting to feel good, but it took a long time to get here. And I think his hair turned whiter in the meantime from my yelling.
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wow that sounds familiar!
I have found that now and then, when begin to tell T something, and remember that I've told her before, I'll stop and say, Oh, I have already told you this - and she really does want me to tell her again. I think that the telling is not told the same, from the first time to the second, and she wants to hear the second viewpoint too.