Just wanted to add my 2 cents.

I think Rainbow posts about attachment-like issues because that's where she's at, and I think the posts are popular because I think alot of us have a similiar struggle so what she writes about reasonates with many, including myself.

We all have different ways of processing stuff, and if this helps RB, then by all means keep posting!!!

For me, my T is terrible with email, but we text, a lot. Some may say it's boundary crossing, but for me, in many ways it's been life saving. She has helped me 'normalize' my feelings around my needs and dependencies.

It's not perfect, and it's wrought with slippery-slopes, and it's caused issues, but we work thru them. And I think for me, that's one of my therapy goals. To stick with a relationship even when it gets hard.