EDIT: Okay, re-reading my post I think I might have figured out where the problem is. Was it my comment about self-care? There was no subtext period, let alone that others are weak and undisciplined. Just for me a week of not eating or sleeping (pretty standard depression symptoms) hits me harder at 43 than it did at 23, but the added benefit of more impulse control with age overrides it. Yet again, speaking for myself.

I wasn't even invested in that, I was just thinking out loud, hence the "?" after it.