OUCH, Flooded! If the thread is triggering you or making you feel frustrated just step away from the keyboard or move onto another thread. You are truly correct in saying that we are all different and that equates with allowing Rainbow to process her issues in her way . . .and that is probably going to be different than how you process or deal with difficult issues.

Let's let her heal in her own way and at her own pace. I don't know about you but I leave the razor sharp confrontations to a person's therapist because I know without a doubt that I have my own blind spots.