Well now I have more to cope with... I was called by a woman today who also showed up at my work place.... to inform me that she has been having an affair with my exh during the last year and a half of our marriage. She had some questions which I refused to answer and finally told her to just take care of herself.

I am so embarrassed that so many people at work now know what is going on as she made it clear to many. I have never dealt with this before and being divorced I would think that I didn't have to. But in reality, it hurts and I am angry. It was hard enough to let go, but to find out I was betrayed in this way (amongst many others) is beyond my previous experience. I am beside myself.