I think my kids' school knows I mean business. With my daughter, all I have to do is dangle "504 plan" or "IEP" and they will do what they need to, because they know that if they don't, I will require an evaluation, which they would have to adhere to, and which they don't like to deal with.

I used to just sit back and go with the flow, but not anymore. I guess it's that "mama bear" instinct kicking in