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Originally Posted by skysblue
Does your T know it's your friend? My T won't see friends or family members. And I even asked her not to. Can you call your T quickly and make that request? You need to protect the relationship you have with your T. That is one of the most important relationships of your life.
Giving away stuff you need for yourself is problematic and hopefully your T can help you with that. But now, you need to save the T relationship. Don't delay.
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My friend told T that I was the one who referred her. My T responded that it might be a conflict of interest but scheduled an appt for next week anyway.
See, that is a perfect example of why I don't want to share my T. I don't want to know conversations that she has with other people! It's not helpful! But... I feel like I did this to myself and if I take it back now I'll be putting T in a bad position and causing tension between my friend and I.
Sigh... The most frustrating thing is that I did think before I made the suggestion to my friend... I just didn't recognize the emotional consequences. Is that denial? Did I do this intentionally? I have nooooo idea. I'm a little worried about what my T will say.