What are you, an armadillo? Or that other thing with the spikes? Who do they mate with? Is that how you want to be treated? The old do unto others. Oh yeah, I forgot, you're perfect, you wouldn't forget like she forgot? (I know I wouldn't forget, I'm like you in that, sky) This manipulation is unattractive, that's why you don't want to do it. Plain and simple. My T would say you sound like your mother. I HATE when he does that (which he does WAY too often).