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Originally Posted by hankster
And if you had just given her a clue, she would have remembered, and THEN what? You would have to let go of the dark side and cross into the light. Rupture, repair - that is the new way, not just staying forever in the hurt. You're not ENJOYING your T enough. And there is no December. There is only now.
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Man, what are you? Zen or something?
If she had remembered, there would be no rupture right now.
We've had our ruptures in the past but repair hasn't really happened yet. T hasn't followed up on those old ruptures and I can't bear to bring them up again. And to have another one brought out into the open just be be shuffled off to the side again? Nah.
I enjoy my T a lot - as long as we don't examine her relationship with me and mine with hers. She's great with helping resolve RL stuff.