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Originally Posted by skysblue
Please then bring it up in session so your T can help guide you on how to cope with this. okay?
I did the same thing. I recommended my T to a friend. It was just afterwards I thought, "holy ****" and talked to my T about it and asked her not to take my friend as a client. Luckily my friend never called. And I had recommended my T because I thought she'd be great for my friend, not understanding at that moment that it would have been disastrous for me.
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Yeah, that's exactly how it went down for me. I had no idea what I had done until after they had their first session. I know it will come up in session next week. I wish I knew what to do with these feelings in the meantime.
I feel like it's the end of an era... which is appropriate in that I'm making progress on moving into a new career and might be relocating out of state, etc. Perhaps I wanted to force the end of this relationship. I don't know. I really have no idea. And I don't like the thought that my T will have opinions on why I did what I did. Why don't I like that my therapist has opinions about my internal life? Seems counterproductive that I feel that way. Blergggggg....