I can very much relate to feeling uncomfortable with sharing my T. I hate just knowing he has other clients, at times - let alone it being someone I'm close to. OH HAIL NO!

My niece wanted me to give her my T's information, and I outright told her that I did not want her seeing my T. She did not take it very well and was quite nasty towards me about it.

Then, one of my best friends who is also a great source of tumult in my life also wanted to see my T - but T imagines that it is more for information gathering, as she wants to control my life (and has badmouthed me being in therapy, etc.)....and T told me that he would refer her to someone else outside of his practice if she ever called. Whew.

I'm sure this is common with clients and their T's.....of course, not so good when it comes to them getting referrals...LOL.