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Originally Posted by kassie1
Well now I have more to cope with... I was called by a woman today who also showed up at my work place.... to inform me that she has been having an affair with my exh during the last year and a half of our marriage. She had some questions which I refused to answer and finally told her to just take care of herself.
I am so embarrassed that so many people at work now know what is going on as she made it clear to many. I have never dealt with this before and being divorced I would think that I didn't have to. But in reality, it hurts and I am angry. It was hard enough to let go, but to find out I was betrayed in this way (amongst many others) is beyond my previous experience. I am beside myself.
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Kassie I am so sorry, I can't believe she showed up at your work, that's just rude! It's like pouring salt in a wound, as the old saying gos. I had similar thing happen to me when I got divorced, My ex worked for big company in small town. All the women had stories to tell me, It really got old! I would smile and say....Well not my problem now! Then go home and stew about it for a while, got to where I didn't want to go anywhere because I didn't want to run in to anyone as the next one that said something I may have run over not just in to! Thinking about you and wishing I could take the pain away, cause I know it does hurt. Good news is it gets better with time and you are not alone!